Sharon Hayes

Everything Else Has Failed! Don’t You Think It’s Time For Love?

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Year – 2007

Medium
5 Spray paints on paper.

Over the past ten years, Sharon Hayes has been engaged in an art practice that uses multiple mediums—video, performance, and installation—in ongoing investigation into various intersections between history, politics and speech. Her work is concerned with developing new representational strategies that examine and interrogate the present political moment, not as a moment without historical foundation but as one that is always allegorical, a moment that reaches simultaneously backwards and forwards. To this aim, she employs conceptual and methodological approaches borrowed from artistic and academic practices such as theater, film, anthropology, linguistics, and journalism.

 

Where is the Renaissance woman?

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Where is he Renaissance woman?

She enamored music, poetry and literature

Garnished herself of Raphael, Titan and Michelangelo’s painting,

Heritage denied her all political rights to live independently

though, she never let her down by bereaved playing dancing and singing!

She was the Renaissance woman strong and astute

she would enable all to live together in “tranquility and virtue”

Oddly given her renown as a brilliant conversationalist

She sung and made the night-bird in mute!

Her hair was beautiful with loose curls twisted chignon,

Subtle allure, she worn with a draped Grecian gown.

Her make up was one shade lighter than her skin

smeared red rouge and lipstick fairly thin,

gentle in her voice and elegant manner

Portrayed herself refined at her own grin!

She celebrated development and intellectual reform

Crushing on Shakespeare, Marlowe, Sidney, Ben Jonson, John Donne, and John Milton.

Stands foremost among the extravagant, fastidious lovers of the beautiful of all artform!

left no Nobel men in her town unturned,

Illuminating scholarship besides her charm, missal and her talk, they yearned!

striking a note of natural passion, very rare in her day

enjoy the quietness of God’s place and sit alone to pray!

She can mix the knowledge, considered disparate spheres into a new whole

She was multi-dimensional, knitting , greeting, painting and self control,

Where is the immortal Renaissance woman

In the midst of  prodigious soul!

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Where is the Renaissance woman? (Poem)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Cake themselves in Make-up

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Caked herself in make-up

“How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone” – Coco Chanel

“The most beautiful make up of a woman is passion. But,  cosmetics are easier to buy” – Yelv Saint Laurent

Dear Doves!

I know how much we love doing ” make up”!

But,  there is a difference between blushing little rouges on your cheeks,  kohl and eyeshadow to highlight your preety eyes and dipping your whole face down on the foundation and colour palette.

But,  it is one of my petpeeves when I see women (girls) apply 70 percent of their make up kit in one go (:D). Perhaps,  you make fun of yourself in public. And,  sometime it’s annoying for men (sssshhhh). Please,  do not apply too much of mascara that looks like thick spider web..don’t apply red and orange lipstick you have broad or stretched lips,  else you look like joker of a circus. Don’t apply too much white or silver shimmer on under your eyebrows. .you look like witch on a broom. Do you know the reason why street hookers wear too much make-up?  Right?

Make up is,meant to define women’s best features and conceal those which are less desirable.  There is no need of being nasty.

Try to look natural even under your make up; and glow from within 💜💜💜💜

 

 

Jealousy – Creating A Rift

Jealousy – A new way of self destruction!

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A scene from Monster in Law

Why do people become jealous?

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One of the things few people know about is that jealousy is one of the most dangerous emotions people can experience if not the most dangerous one.

Jealousy is one of those demons that just seems to take everything over when it is felt – even when you know on the inside that your jealousy doesn’t make sense somehow, it often still rips through and takes you hostage. Many people even go so far as to call jealousy an innate emotion, as though, no matter what, we will always feel some jealousy sometimes, and there’s nothing we can do to help that.

Some people even think jealousy is a healthy thing, because it means that you care. You know that you are in love, it is said, when you feel tremendous pangs of jealousy about that special love that you share being shared with somebody else. Without jealousy and other associated negative involuntary emotions, the relationship might as well end, it is said, because then you have no more passionate divine spark. If you don’t ever get jealous, it must mean that you can turn your emotions on and off at a whim, and thus no more organic drive exists to feel.

why do people become jealous?:

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  • Perceived competition:
        If someone doesn’t care about wrestling then he might not pay any attention to you if you became a wrestling champion but if he cares about finding a good job then there is a big possibility that he will experience jealousy if he saw you landing a good job. So mainly jealousy happens where there is perceived competition.
  • Being unsure of his skills: It is said that If a person was 100% sure that he can do that same thing you did then he will never feel jealous, however, if he had some doubts then he might feel jealous. The intensity of jealousy will depend upon the intensity of these self doubts
  • Being in need: If someone needs money the most then he will certainly feel jealous upon finding you financially successful, on the other hand, a rich person might feel jealous of a financially successful person but his jealousy won’t be that intense compared to a person who is really in need of money

I want to correct some assumptions here – because it is obvious, if you look around you enough, that there are people who do not ever really feel jealousy. I am one of them. Such people do not have shallower emotions; rather, they have an inbuilt understanding that channels negative emotions away from feelings of jealousy. This holds a lot of hope for those other folks who tend to become prisoner to jealousy’s grip: it’s not an inevitable process.

Root causes behind jealousy:

 

  • Jealousy root cause #1:Lack of self confidence: The main cause for feelings of jealousy are your doubts about your abilities or skills. If you were one hundred percent sure of yourself you would have never suffered from any jealousy feelings
  • Jealousy root cause #2: Poor self image : Having a poor self image is another cause of jealousy. If you believe that you look ugly or that you are not that handsome then chances are you’ll be experiencing feeling of jealousy whenever you meet someone who looks better than you
  • Jealousy root cause #3: Fear : One of the root causes behind jealousy is being afraid. This fear can be a fear of ending up alone, a fear of being rejected or a fear of losing the love of your partner.

How to handle with Haters and and Jealous People:

  • Never take it personally: Know that when a person is jealous with you, it’s nothing to do with you. Basically, it’s his own lack of confidence.
  • Ignore people’s jealousy and hateful comment: pay no heed to comments from jealous people tells them you are not going to validate their feelings.
  • Be humble: While people can become jealous of a humble person still the jealousy would be much less intense than if the person was arrogant.
  • Reduce your negative interactions with the person: If you can change your environment or social dynamics it will reduce the jealous person’s ability to influence you.
    • Hang out with people who support you, people who are positive, so the hater is less likely to confront you when you’re with a group.
    • When you see the jealous person, initiate first to speak with a polite greeting then move on.
  • Do not appear swank: At least in front of those who are in need the most. If a friend didn’t find a job and is in a bad need for money then you shouldn’t mention your financial success in front of him at all
  • Offer help: Certainly helping someone who is in need will reduce jealousy and in many cases eliminate it. Help people who are in need and you will reduce their jealousy.

 

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Being a classy Woman

Traditionally, a woman who has the manners or qualities of a member of a privileged or superior class, possess high qualities, prestigious, stylish and elegant is the definition of a classy woman. But, how many of women have this great compound?

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Dear divine,

There is a pleasure of being an absolute woman, a classy and elegant woman in the society, for yourself, for your man, and for your children too. Being classy isn’t just being a makeup expert or owning haute couture and expensive car. It is more substantial than you think. Do you want to achieve this high qualities of class and elegance?

Is ‘Classiness’ Important?

Firstly, it is a more beautiful way of doing and experiencing life. It is quality.

Maybe you’ll like to socialize with people you admire. People who are refined will identify you as “one of them”. Maybe you want to do business with high net worth clients.

Because you’ve acquired these common traits with the ‘classy folks’, they’ll identify you as one of their own. They would want to socialize with you, do business with you or marry you. They also would welcome the association of your children.

Every woman wants a true gentleman, they want to be treated right and they deserve it. However, you must be and act like a lady to attract a true gentleman.

Having these connections can help you access opportunities not available to you before!

How to be classy?

1. Tender and friendly toned of voice.

2. Introduce yourself with confident saying not only “Hello” but also ” Nice to meet you”.

3. She is not boastful.

4. She never talks with a mouth full of food.

5. While at any religious place, meetings, or at meals a classy lady turns her phone off or puts it on silent. She gives her attention to what is going on in front of her and expects the same.

6. She is gentle, has sympathetic eyes, and treats everyone with equal empathy.

7. A classy woman never talks loud, she always keeps her cool…like a gentle breeze.. 🙂

8. She is honest.

9. She is Empathetic, kind and she treats everyone not familiar with her with “aloof kindness”

10. She is not rude.

11.  She has a warm and firm clasp (of her hand)

12. A classy woman likes cheerfulness and positiveness.

13.  She loves truthfulness and goodness.

14. A classy woman is youthful but mature.

15. A classy woman never wears too much make-up or wears cheap make-up. She buys less make up but of high quality.

16. She eats healthy and has some good knowledge about food too.

17. A classy woman has great sensibility and  substance…. 🙂

18. She self educate herself about culture, worldly-affairs, history, cooking, nurturing kids, home-decor, hygiene.

19. A classy woman do charity….remember Princess Diana!!! ❤

20. She is stylish. A classy lady knows her body and what suits her the best. She knows what to wear on which occasion.

Smile* Divine ❤

Being Classy

“A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.” – Coco Chanel

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Dear Divine!

Do you ever desired to be called a ” Classy woman” by everyone? Well, you have to designate yourself into good practice, discipline and hard work too. Here I have some list of benefits, for you being a “Classy woman” ~

1. Reliable:  A classy lady is a woman of her word. She has a respectable reputation based on her consistency of her word. She keeps her promises and obligations. She’s known amongst her friends and family as someone who is dependable.

2. Respectable: People respect classy lady because she respect herself and others too.

3. Inspiration: A classy lady is an inspiration to many. The number one reason why the most global Cause Ambassadors are Classy women. Remember Lady Diana?

4. Dating & Relationship: Good, Rich and generous Men are biologically inclined to marry a good and Classy woman.

5. Disciplined: A classy lady has her own priorities and dignities not be carried away by late night parties, hang over, self-abused, over talkative, gossiping. Instead, she is more productive things to do whether cooking something delicious and healthy, doing exercise, reading books, going out with her friends for lunch or shopping, getting regular skin and beauty treatment done, keeping herself updated with worldly affair etc.

Dear Divine! I would also like to post on “Classy Women Behavior” next. Hope, you will be already in frame of mind to the Fabulous and “Classy Woman”